So many great people taught us that WE are our own worst enemy!! We say "I can't do this" or "I don't deserve that", or "I'm not like that guy or girl"! We set limits to ourselves, where in fact the reality is that there are no limits. One of our worst attributes is over attachment to other people. Some of us actually CAN'T live without people's approval on everything they do. They have to constantly reach out to others and be too involved with them to gain their love. I am not against helping and loving each other BUT for the right reasons. People wish to achieve so many things in life and keep dreaming BIG, but that is all they do, dream! Because all their energy, effort, and power is wasted on paying too much attention to others, and how they react to them. They feel lost without others, and not because they need guidance but because they constantly need to hear encouragement, praise, and approval on each step. It is gr...